I have no idea what that topic actually means. It sounded cool as it flowed from my brain, down my arms and out through my finger tips…..that description sounded even cooler, although sounds decidedly nerdy.

None of that has anything to do with wild swinging sex. Our second outing meeting a couple that we talked to online was very different than our first swinging experience. We chatted online with a couple who was a bit older than we are, but their pictures were very good and they looked much younger than their age. They also had been swinging for 10+ years so that was a big plus for us; we thought it would be great to meet a couple who weren’t new to this as there wouldn’t be any concern of any drama or crap coming up. At the very least we thought it would be awesome to talk to someone with a lot of experience who had made this kind of sexual activity a successful part of their relationship for a very long time. We didn’t waste a lot of time chatting with them online and we arranged to meet them downtown for some drinks and to see where things lead (no expectations). Incidentally, our best experiences have come after very short online conversations, prolonged online contact has either fizzled out or ended up in flat in-person meetings. Definitely now how we thought that would work out.

We showed up at the appointed hour and they had just walked in as well (second time thats happened! Us swingers are a prompt bunch). We found a nice booth and got comfortable with some drinks and a few snacks. Some very light social conversation and then the other couple lead the conversation straight to sex, swinging, how we got to where we are, what we’ve done, why we’ve done it, what we want to do…..wow. They wasted no time at all getting serious. It was cool though, they were very comfortable with the subject and that frame was contagious. We had a great open discussion about our experience, what we were interested in and then we started asking questions of them. They had all kinds of stories to tell of their experiences, how they have made this work for them, what they like. After a few hours though we started to get hints of them being very aggressive about this. We were out to have some drinks, get to know them and see what happened. They were out to quickly interview us, then fuck. As soon as we picked up on that we were immediately turned off. Katrina mentioned on the drive home that she felt like a notch on their bedpost, definitely not the situation that we were looking for.

So after a few drinks and lots of fun stories we got some advice from them on how they made this work in their relationship then quickly extracted ourselves and went back home. They were great people, very friendly and open, but they just weren’t right for us to get sexual with. We prefer a more intimate vibe and they were more about hit-it-and-quit-it.

A good learning experience for us. Good to meet a couple that we didn’t end up naked with shortly after; great to get some insight from a couple who had done this for over 10 years; great to hear some good and bad stories from their experiences and great to get home with a sexy Katrina for some time with just the two of us 😉